To A Child, Love is Spelled T-I-M-E

One Solitary Life

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FREE One Solitary Life movie DVD with gift book purchase.

A powerful essay from a 1926 sermon by James A. Francis depicts the life, journey and message of Jesus. No other man, army or movement has affected the people on this earth as much as his “One Solitary Life.”

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Inspire!

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All teachers have inspiring moments with students – some on purpose and some just happen.

INSPIRE! delivers a fresh and simple pathway for teachers to connect with students and inspire them … everyday!

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Listen Up, Teacher…YOU Are Making a Difference

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An inspiring book written for those who have dedicated their life to teaching school.

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Walk Awhile In My Shoes, Too!

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Our first venture outside the business arena has resulted in a practical and inspiring handbook designed to improve communication, and foster respect and understanding, between adults and youths. It’s perfect for “family friendly” companies looking for helpful resources to give their employees.

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Because Our Children Are Watching Deluxe DVD

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A short inspirational movie, produced by The WALK THE TALK Company, that’s sure to make you think, stir your soul, grab your heart, and not let go!

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What Parenting Method Is the Best?

There are four major types of parenting, i.e. (i) uninvolved, (ii) indulgent, (iii) authoritarian and (iv) authoritative. Though some of these parenting methods can be learnt and absorbed, it usually happens naturally – depending upon the innate nature with which the parent is born. Before we learn and decide which one of these parenting methods is the best, let us understand each one of them.

Uninvolved Parent

This parenting method is usually reflected when the parent(s) do not really bother about what is going on in the life of the child. They provide the minimum necessities and do not bother about the psychological needs of the child. This type of parent has neither any demands nor response. The child is an incidental thing in the house.

Indulgent Parent

These types of parents are always there ready to do anything the child wants even before they ask for something. They take joy from being there all the time and have very few demands if any on the child. Here you will find two divisions – there are parents who like to consider their children as their friends and allow them liberties as they grow, and the other type, which allows the child to do as he/she pleases in the belief, that at the right time they will grow out of it and become responsible adults.

Authoritarian Parent

This type of parent is dictatorial. The child has no rights, no capacity to think what is right or wrong for him and hence, all the decisions need to be taken by the parent. Further, the child should unflinchingly obey all the rules that they impose.  In this type too, there are two divisions, i.e. parents that recognize and accept certain boundaries that the child erects with age; and the other is who is overly intrusive and demanding.

Authoritative Parent

This is the most accepted parenting method. It involves being both demanding and responsive at the same time, which  in turn keeps the parent in constant touch with the feelings, ambitions, fears and hopes of the child. This type of parent is like a rock in the child’s life and at the same time is capable of instilling in him the core values of life.

Now, look at each of these descriptions and find out which type you are currently and which areas you want to improve in.

Getting a Babysitter

One of the biggest parenting issues that beset young parents nowadays is the care of their baby while they go to work. It is a constant struggle for young parents to leave their baby at the babysitters while they go to work. Young mothers are especially very reluctant to leave their babies in a new place. If you are one of those mothers who find it very uncomfortable to leave your baby alone in the house with the babysitter, you might want to consider working from home.

Breastfeeding Your Baby

Although lot of women would want to breastfeed their babies, there are still many young mothers who rely on infant formula. Even through there are already so many government programs that encourage breastfeeding; breastfeeding is still one of parenting issues that affects young parents. Sometimes, even if the mother is very inclined to breastfeed her baby, she may not be able to do so because she works outside of the home and may be inaccessible to the baby.

Child’s Diet

The diet of the children is one of the most pressing parenting issues for working parents. Working parents are always in a hurry to get to work and often do not have enough time to prepare a healthy meal. Unfortunately, according to studies, children who eat unhealthy meals often do not develop their immune system well and are more prone to diseases. If you are one of those parents who have parenting issues with regard to the diet of your children, you should start paying attention to what nutrition experts have to say.

Although you may feel so pressed for time, you should not make your being busy an excuse not to give you children healthy food.  According to experts, if you really cannot cook healthy meals everyday, you should try to cook enough good food for a few meals and put it is the refrigerator so that you can just re-heat it later. When storing food in the refrigerator, make sure that you seal the food properly to preserve its freshness.

A Few Essentials of Effective Parenting

The first effective parenting plan a parent can make use of is to nurture the self esteem of the child. Often this development of self esteem begins when the child is still a baby when they see themselves as a reflection of their parent’s image. They imbue the parent’s tone of voice, body language as well as studiously copying and memorizing every expression and act of the parents.

The second effective parenting act that should be performed is to catch the child being good. Very often, parents react negatively to their children who they tend to criticize more often than praise. Catching the child doing something right and encouraging such acts and behavior will encourage the child to lean towards good behavior, and being generous by rewarding the child will also help develop better behavior in the child.

Limits

Effective parenting should also ensure that there are limits set and these should be enforced consistently with regard to disciplining the child. The aim of disciplining the child is to help him choose acceptable behavior and learn self-control. House rules, once established, will help the child understand the expectations of the parents and also develop self-control – all attributes that are welcome in a child’s character.

Time

Another method of effective parenting requires taking time to give to the child. Getting up a bit earlier in the morning to have breakfast with the child or taking a walk with the child after dinner instead of washing the dishes will result in a mutually rewarding experience for both child and parent.

Role Model

It is also necessary for a parent to be a good role model for the child. This is an important factor in effective parenting because the child will take his or her cues from the actions and behavior of the parent. The parents should model the traits that they wish to cultivate in the child such as respect, friendliness, honesty, tolerance and kindness

Other important factors that play an important role in developing the child in a positive manner and which should be part of effective parenting include making communication a priority and being flexible. Parents should also be willing to adjust parenting styles showing that their love is unconditional and being aware of their own needs and limitations and acting accordingly.